unpacking wedding thoughts.

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 A week ago we began the process of uniting our oldest daughter with her new husband.   A week ago we sat at the church for dress rehearsal and I cried.  A lot.  Then we went and had a lovely meal and I looked around the room and saw all of their people, gathered together, breaking bread and laughing and smiling and preparing to bear witness to a wedding.  

On the way home from the wonderful rehearsal meal, our extra-kredit began a meltdown that indicated he would be unable to participate in all the wedding day stuff.  Because God is my helper and friend and interceder I was able to hear what he was saying.....please, mom, just find somewhere else for me to go tomorrow.  He didn't want Claire to "move away" and he didn't want to go to a friend while we did family photos and he was definitely done with all the extended family and noise and lack of routine....not to mention all his own stuff around holidays and trauma and being separated from his family.....and so I made a call, and God opened a door and extra Kredit was able to check out in the morning and go have fun and play and not do the wedding stuff for about 24 hours.  

We woke up on wedding day, January 2, to a surprise gift.  Fog.  Sparkly frost on the trees.  No wind...and for Iowa, that is a gift....it was a peaceful, surreal, quiet morning...and the day that followed was amazing.  It was cold but not miserably cold.  It was beautiful.  It was flawless...and even though we are flawed, the Lord delivered flawless nature for us...and more so, for Claire and for Jonah.  It was a unique and rare day and it was all for them.  

More to come....


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