Carol Dweck - A Study on Praise and Mindsets

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My entire professional career I have worked hard to tell small children they were smart (rather than handsome or beautiful).....today I learned there is even higher praise and more important language......to recognize effort and not label anyone.  This video is significant.  Enjoy!

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