not everyone sees the same things
You know what you don't see at a sub-state soccer game? You don't see the mom of a senior and the wife of the opposing team's head coach find eachother for a hug mid-game because they are friends and they need to find eachother and remember that they know that one will end up winning and the other will not and they both love their guys and they both love soccer. They remind each other that while it is just a game it also matters to not just their guys but to them because it just does. So they don't just hug once but two or three times. You don't see how cold all the spectators are because although it is late May the rain is cold and the wind is blowing and everyone is shivering but won't leave because we are cheering for our favorite teams and in Iowa we are not wimps. We show up and brave the weather and we cheer. You don't see 2 athletic directors stomp out shoulder to shoulder, in step, united when things get heate...