November-ish
November is a month to celebrate many things. It is national adoption/foster care month. It is Josiah's birthday month. It is my mom's birthday month. It is Election month and Veteran's Day month....and it is Thanksgiving. Josiah had a birthday yesterday. He's 8. He cried the night before his birthday because he couldn't share his birthday with his birth mom....and he missed knowing her and being able to talk to her and share things about his life with her. I told him he had a big empty hole in his heart where she should have filled but because she couldn't fill it He should ask Jesus to fill that part up, too. He said that made sense. I think it does, too. Adoption is a hard thing. The joy we felt when we knew we could add him to our family was balanced by deep sorrow for his birth mom because she couldn't keep him in hers. She gratefully and willingly turned the job of parenting him over to us......